Find a girlfriend:20 tricks for a girl to fall in love with you
1. BE YOURSELF
All of my tips will give you tricks and ideas, but I mean for them all to be enhancements of who you really are, not make you into someone you’re not. If you’re fake, it doesn’t matter if you get a girl to fall in love with you, because she won’t really be in love with the real you. So, my first idea is to always be myself, no matter what, so a girl likes me for me.
2. OPTIMIZE YOUR APPEARANCE
Whenever I’m trying to be more attractive to someone, I always optimize. Now, this doesn’t mean I starve myself to look thin, buy tons of new clothes, or get a dramatic hair cut. Instead, I just try to make myself look my best. This means a cute outfit that emphasizes my best features, combed and fixed hair, a clean bright smile.
3. LISTEN, LISTEN, LISTEN
Girls love to talk about themselves, and they think a guy who actively listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen more than I talk when I was trying to attract a girl. Talk about yourself, current topics, news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let her control the conversation about 80% of the time.
4. LAUGH A LOT
Girls are drawn to guys with a great sense of humor, and I think humor always begins with a lot of laughter. So, I always tried to laugh a lot and be easy to please when I was trying to attract a gril. If I want a girl to fall in love with me, I make sure to laugh at all her jokes!
5. HAVE A GREAT ATTITUDE
In my experience, girls like guys with cheerful, sunny dispositions. No one likes to hang out with a pessimistic, negative person. So, I always try to look on the bright side of life and be a “glass half full” person when I’m trying to catch a hot girl. People always tend to look my way more often and gravitate toward me when I’ve got a smile on my face!
6. BE SWEET
When I’m with my friends, we’ll gossip or trash some other guy for being rude or trashy, but that’s not a nice way to act. And, let me just tell you, I’ve learned that this kind of behavior doesn’t attract girls. girls are drawn to boys who are sweet and don’t gossip, so keep cattiness and snotty comments to yourself around your new girl.
Some of my friends used to think flirting was beneath them, but I’m telling you – it works. Girls just love to be showered with attention and treated like a “daughter”. Toss her hair a little bit, give her a big hug, grin a lot. Even those these old tricks might seem tried and true, they’re tried and true because they actually work!
8. BE DIFFERENT
Trying to be unique and different is a way I’ve always tried to interest girls. I don’t want her to think that I’m just like all the other guys out there… instead, I want to be seen as charming, witty, and smart. So, I don’t talk about all those same old topics, like school gossip. Ask her about how she feels about current events or newsworthy stories and show her you’re worldy!
9. BE WITTY
As I said before, girls like a guy with a sense of humor. The best way to show you value humor is to laugh at her jokes, but I always try to crack a few jokes myself, too. Girls are drawn to guys with a funny side, and there’s nothing that draws two people closer than sharing a laugh. So, I always bust out a few comments or funny one-liners when I’m trying to draw a girl to me.
10. INITIATE PHYSICAL CONTACT
Touching someone is a quick way to develop intimacy,When I’m trying to attract a girl’s attention, I will look for ways to bring physical touch into play. For instance, I touch her arm lightly when I’m laughing at a joke,or I’ll touch her hand while I’m explaining something.
11. BRING HER A TREAT
I always send some small presents for a girl when I’m trying to make her fall in love with me,and then I just surprise her with it on a random day.When my wife and I were firstI left a bag of treats in his locker before her every performance.she just loved it!
12. GIVE HER FREEDOM
When a girl’s trying to determine if you’re boyfriend material, she will test you a little bit. My advice at this point is to give her freedom, and that will send her right back for more.In my experience, if any girl every got the impression that I’d try to tie her down,she’d be gone lightening fast.So, let your gril know that you value and respect her time with her friends,shopping,or whatever it is she does in her spare time.
13. LET HER CALL YOU
When I’m trying to get a girlfriend, I play a little hard to get.I don’t call her all the time, try to track her down,or generally make myself a bother.I want her to think that I’m too busy out there having a great time to bother with her,and that she better get in touch with me quickly if she’s interested in sharing any time with me!Let her be interested in you.
14. PRACTICE MIRRORING STRATEGIES
Okay, this seems a little creepy at first, but just hear me out. Whenever I want to impress or charm someone (not just girls, but anyone),I do a little physical mirroring. What this means is taking whatever physical action that person does, waiting about five seconds, and then copying the motion. For instance, if your girl rests her elbow on the table, wait five seconds, and then put your elbow on the table. Sounds silly, but it works! It creates a connection between me and the girl that she just can’t explain.
15. MAKE EYE CONTACT
Staring deeply into someone’s eyes quickly ramps up the intensity of the connection between two people. So, if I’m trying to get a girl to fall in love with me, I stare deeply into her eyes while we’re talking. Now, don’t look too long, or you’ll appear to be a stalker… but you definitely want extended eye contact.
16. DON’T APPEAR DESPERATE
Girls aren’t attracted to desperate, clingy guys who seem like they can’t get anyone else.Girls are attracted to busy, happy, popular guys who seem like they’ve got it all under control and who have the world at their feet.Even if you think you aren’t popular, happy, or busy, try to appear that way to your girl.That means, don’t say yes if she asks you out last minute. Tell her you’ve got other plans, but you’d love to schedule something with her in a few days. Play hard to get!
17. BE TRUSTWORTHY
Girls love someone they can trust.I learned the hard way that telling my friends every thing about a new girlfriend in my life wasn’t the best idea.Word always gets back to the girl that I’ve talked about what she told me or told details about our time together,and she always bolts. Discretion is the best policy.Don’t tell your friends every little bit of your private conversations, and your girl will trust and respect you much more.
18. LEAVE A LITTLE MYSTERY
When I am trying to attract a girl,I don’t want to be an open book to her I’ve found that girls like a little mystery… they keep coming back for more if you leave more to find out.Think of your information, history, interests, etc. like a treasure hunt… give your girl little clues,but don’t let her find the treasure right away. She’ll want to keep calling and asking you out just to learn more about you!
19. BE SUPPORTIVE OF HIS INTERESTS
Girls love it when guys show they’re interested in what girls are interested in.even if I hate her some favorite,I’m discuss it with her to show a girl I’m both interested and interesting.When I dated a girl who loved ballet, I researched all about it so I could carry on a conversation with her, even though I don’t like ballet.When I dated a wrestler, I went to several matches to cheer her on, even though I think wrestling is boring. It will attract a girl if you show her you’re interested.
20. HOLD OFF ON THE PHYSICAL INTIMACY
My last tip has to do with physical intimacy, or making out, heavy petting, or sex. If you truly want to make a guy fall in love with you,you must take your time.Many brothers just wanted to get in touch immediately when they were dating a girl, but most girls left because of this,So, hold off on physical intimacy to give your relationship a chance to develop first.